Communist_Synthesizer@lemmy.world to Political Memes@lemmy.world · edit-24 months agoWhere is Chris Hansen when you need him?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square121fedilinkarrow-up1682arrow-down134file-text
arrow-up1648arrow-down1imageWhere is Chris Hansen when you need him?lemmy.worldCommunist_Synthesizer@lemmy.world to Political Memes@lemmy.world · edit-24 months agomessage-square121fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareWirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up12·edit-24 months agoA father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her. I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it. Without speaking to her as a person, it’s certain that if something’s happening it’s the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim. We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she’s a bad person for other reasons, these aren’t mutually exclusive.
minus-squareXeroxchasechase@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·4 months agoThanks. It’s obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did’nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.
minus-squareWirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up6·4 months agoAh I understand, sorry for being blunt but there’s a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim’s actions in abusive situations. Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don’t assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.
A father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her.
I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it.
Without speaking to her as a person, it’s certain that if something’s happening it’s the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim.
We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she’s a bad person for other reasons, these aren’t mutually exclusive.
Thanks. It’s obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did’nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.
Ah I understand, sorry for being blunt but there’s a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim’s actions in abusive situations.
Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don’t assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.