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Cake day: October 3rd, 2023

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  • I don’t know if I am normal but i would much prefer someone to address a problem they have with me directly or to be confrontational if they felt something was wrong, but, this year I keep encountering situations where people are saying one thing to my face but harboring a different set of feelings when i am not around. I don’t know if this is a ‘me’ problem, like perhaps people are afraid of confrontation with me because I am a strong personality, or maybe its just the norm for people to be conflict avoidant and I am being unrealistic by expecting people to be direct with how they feel. Sorry for the rant, but like 5 different social situations have happened this year that make me feel like people either just don’t respect me enough to be honest about their feelings, or maybe that is just my ego and i should stop taking it personally.