This is no doubt a massive butchery of the original quote, taken from my memory of the book “The Buddha, Geoff and Me”, but I hope the sentiment carries through regardless.
Every day, the Buddha would walk through town. While walking, he would pass a man, who deeply despised the Buddha and everything he stood for. He would hurl insults at the Buddha, the most vile and reprehensible accusations. Every day, the Buddha would just nod and smile towards the man, then carry on his walk. Every day, the man would say the worst thing he could think of.
One day, the man did not say anything horrible. He stood in front of the Buddha, stopping him, and asked him, “I say all these things to you every day, why don’t you react? Do you not understand how much I think you’re a horrible person?”
The Buddha replied, after a moment, “If I gave you a gift, would you accept it?”
The man said, “No, of course not. You’re the worst, I wouldn’t accept anything from you.”
“Then who would the gift belong to, would it be yours?”
“No, it’s not mine, you have to keep it!”
The Buddha replied: “Such is the way with your anger. If I do not accept it, then it belongs to you, and you alone.”
I don’t know very many Buddhist quotes. I’m just beginning to learn about buddhism in earnest. But a religious studies class I took a while back had one story that I loved, and have taken to heart since.
Super paraphrased, and but I’m going for spirit of the message here.
Two monks were walking down a path one day, and came across a bridge that had fallen. A woman stood at the banks of the stream, and asked the monks to carry her across, because she could not swim. The younger monk immediately said no, as the monks were forbidden from touching a woman. The older man agreed, and carried the woman across the water, and the two monks went on their way. The younger monk stewed over this, becoming more and more upset about, until finally that night, as they went to rest, the younger monk exploded, “Why did you touch that woman? You know we are forbidden to touch a woman! You have broken you vow!”
And the older monk replied “I carried the woman for a moment. You have carried her all day.”
Boooo, you suck!
If you see the Buddha, kill the Buddha.
Hah! That’s quite clever, thank you for sharing it here!
I opened this thread hoping to find a new favorite Buddhist story, but this is already my favorite. Haha
Also works for haters and their hate. ‘why don’t you react?’ tells what the man was looking for.
