We have a 2021 XC40 Recharge and love it. It’s a great car. The main drawback as you’ve noted is range and by 2024 standards slower charging. The 2024 models with the 82kWh batteries and new motor configs will largely solve those issues.

There are plenty of great EVs that aren’t Tesla. Drive a few and pick one. This will get you started. https://www.edmunds.com/electric-car/