Semperverus

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Not bailed for good, i do check in and read every once in a while, but traffic is very low so it doesnt ever feel like i have much to do.

I love the way you phrased this. I agree, in general I am staunchly egalitarian, but when two (or more) consenting adults can come to an agreement to enact a rule of patriarchy or matriarchy in their home or small community where everyone is happy or even thrilled about it, that makes for excellent and healthy TPE. Put simply, there are people who desire and even have an internal need that they’ve identified independently to be underneath someone else, and they often get left out of participating in that in a healthy and safe way.

We’ll explain it when you’re older

That sounds great, thank you for your efforts.

I would say yes as long as you attribute credit, and remove on the author’s request if they don’t like it. I’ll update the sidebar when I get a chance.

was confused whether the whole crossdressing stuff is just meant as a gimmick or if they’re(?) really into it.

So is f1nnst3r.

Also, finn insists that he is the “manliest manly man” on stream a lot, so I’d say it’s safe to assume he/him (for now anyway - chat is convinced that finn is the eggiest egg that ever egged).

Is this the same Icky that’s dating f1nnst3r? She does excellent work.

I read through some of your work. You seem to have a passion for this.

Welcome aboard.

No sharpie counters on the legs?

I agree. Crossposting by reuploading is fine, hotlinking maybe not so much, as they could yank access or track and sell your activity. Generally giving them traffic is bad.

I have a simple solution to this: If you are the moderator of your community, just put a rule in the sidebar disallowing OF links and references. Handle it on a per-community level.

Conflict resolution and being hard to offend are incredibly valuable skills. I’d be happy to have you aboard.

Sorry for the late response. I appreciate your honesty, and I’m interested in bringing you aboard. Thank you for your reply, and welcome to the team.

Edit/Note: Buelldozer has switched accounts based on persona preference, and will be continuing to mod but under a different name.

I am still looking for help. I mostly am looking for light-touch moderation (i.e. Giving people room to express themselves, even if it’s not a happy discussion, and stepping in only when absolutely necessary).

As far as the BDSM specific element goes, since you are a bit newer to the kink/interest in general, would you be willing to expand on any of the following safety topics to help give me a better feel with your engagement with it? There are a lot of ways that various things can go wrong with bdsm, and while this will mostly be a porn community, discussion is bound to happen and we may have to step in to give more experienced advice.

1. What is the primary distinguishing factor between SSC and RACK, and where would each one apply?

2. What types of physical harm do riggers (shibari) have to avoid, and what tools and techniques would they use to avoid them? (At least one physical tool and one process)

3. Instead of using a “safe word” like pineapple or eggplant, what is generally considered a better system?

It is, and I absolutely love it.

It’s not so much a podcast as a general YouTube channel, but Evie Lupine and Ms. Elle X are good listens and generally do long-form content.

I’ve never been into podcasts so I don’t have great direct feedback for you on that front. I’ll post again if I do find something.