I’d just say that you can’t provide the chat to protect the privacy of other participants. They are obviously looking for a way to not pay. No good will come of complying with that. If it really is street racing chat you risk getting dropped and getting others dropped.
As a DD, the f87 is a better car. I’d feel bad about packing miles on a e46. I agree that you will never be able to buy something like the e46 again. I’d probably explore getting another DD more if it were me.