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sell my baseball cards, i don’t care.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
People Twitter@sh.itjust.works•The truth is out there
24·19 hours agoHa in high school yea. now I’ve talked to enough of them to know they’re thinking about something completely random and unrelated to me and often nothing at all, which I find the most interesting.
Like they might have literally just been staring at a tree for five minutes. And then I talk to them and they’re like 'I was just looking at this tree."
Especially these days, people seem increasingly surprised that a human is actually talking to them in real life.
Cool, thanks for listening, haha.
Hope it helps.
it’s not that obvious. people interrupt other people all the time, often exactly in the way you’re suggesting. “oh MAN that reminds me of -!” and now the person confiding in you doesn’t have anybody listening to them anymore and maybe hasn’t been able to fully express themselves.
As for your response to someone confiding in you:
Usually listening and accurate acknowledgment of their story and expressed feelings are enough, but if you strongly feel they want you to respond more fully or if they explicitly ask you for feedback, ask them questions about their situation and feelings rather than beginning to tell your own story.
Keep the focus on them rather than shifting the focus to yourself. When they are finished talking about themselves, they’ll begin asking you questions or shifting the focus away from themselves.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Would you let artificial intelligence take care of your children?
3·20 hours agono to childcare, i would not let an AI raise my children for the same reason I would not let a bird raise my children. different species.
platonic relationship - with an advanced enough AI, I’d feel comfortable having an AI acquaintance.
i would feel ridiculous having a romantic relationship with an AI the same way I would feel ridiculous if I had a romantic relationship with an automobile or bird.
consciousness?
absolutely, it’s a matter of the right number of neurons and the acknowledgement that “consciousness” is the expression of interactive instincts, knowledge and largely patterned reactions rather then a magical “soul” from an unknowable plane.
AI consciousness is a matter of advancement and increasing complex awareness until AI is indistinguishable from I.
AI consciousness will one day become as complex as human consciousness, which is limited and calculable.
they don’t need you to prove you can empathize with them as much as they need your support, which is often more effective through listening. than talking.
if they need you to validate your empathy, they’ll tell you, but usually people want their confidant to pay attention to them for a certain amount of time so they can safely and completely decompress/vent. telling your own story is taking away the time they’ve set aside to for themselves to fully share something important to them with you.
The fact they’re talking to you also strongly implies that they already think you empathize with them; they simply need someone they trust to listen to their story, so you making your case for how you can empathize is redundant and can makenit difficult for them to fully express themselves.
we all like to talk, and we all want to talk to someone who listens.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Cross stitch and embroidery@sh.itjust.works•WIP Wednesday 👤
6·22 hours agoReminds me of American McGee’s Alice.


imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Ask Men@lemmy.world•My bestfriend abandoned me after i had a mental breakdownEnglish
13·1 day agoDoesn’t sound like it’s about you. He has to come to terms with his sexuality before anything else in this story becomes relevant.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Nintendo@lemmy.world•Preview: Star Fox (2026) - Just A Remake, But What A RemakeEnglish
1·2 days agowow yeah? seems like a good idea.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.ca•How do you design an economic and taxation system to keep the domestic rich in line and well-behaved and scare off fuckers like Peter Thiel from ever taking root and parasiting in the first place?
3·2 days agoSuccessful countries use “taxes”.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Nintendo@lemmy.world•Preview: Star Fox (2026) - Just A Remake, But What A RemakeEnglish
26·2 days agooh whaaaat, worth a torrent.
i don’t get it, we all shower like that.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Fuck AI@lemmy.world•Finally, AI Is Creating Great Jobs: Cranking the Hog for $2K a Month
22·2 days agomasturbate.
nope it’s fine, they’re just dumb.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Crazy Fucking Videos@lemmy.world•Your average Israeli citizen dancing cheerfully to the beat of genocideEnglish
144·2 days agonobody hates immigrants like immigrants and nobody hates victims like victims.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
Motorcycles@lemmy.world•Stripped front brake master cylinder screws...should I take it to a shop or is it doable for a total noob without fucking everything up??
5·6 days agotry tapping your screwdriver into the screws with a hammer, or drilling out a shallow hole in the middle of the stripped screw before tapping in the screwdriver, then push down on the screw driver while slowly unscrewing it.
I’ve done the hammer tapping thing before and it worked so I would try that first. If it doesn’t work, yeah, it might be time for a mechanic, they deal with stripped screws a lot and they can always bore out the entire thing and then secure it with a new bolt and nut from the other side.
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
World News@quokk.au•US, Iran made 'a lot of progress' towards ceasefire extension; Trump 'not yet ready' to approve deal: Vance
22·6 days ago“idiot who withdrew from iran nuclear deal surprised he cannot negotiate a second iran nuclear deal.”
imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.worksto
science@lemmy.world•“Magic Mushroom” Compound May Help the Brain Recover After StrokeEnglish
4·7 days agoyou’re totally right, with very different types of dmt alkaloids across species with all sorts of different effects.
crappy AI buzzwriting I would guess, non- factual or contextual word association.




Smoking makes you get older faster all over, definitely also your hair.