Stop treating young adults (aka teens) like dirt.

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  • SPR_860@lemmy.tfOPMtoCommon Sense@lemmy.tfSome Things Are Obvious
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    1 year ago

    “finish developing” is a giant red herring.

    Our brains and bodies never stop changing. There is no point of “finish developing”. and even if there was that doesn’t mean that people before that point are stupid. The whole idea is garbage that bigots use to justify hating on specific demographic.

    and “lacking any real life experience”? well, sure, because we barred them from entering adult society. They have been legally and socially prevented from gaining any of that experience. That’s not a problem with them, that’s a direct result of us treating them like shit, and creating a problem that need not exist.



  • SPR_860@lemmy.tfOPMtoCommon Sense@lemmy.tfPower Imbalance Arguments Are Nonsense
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    1 year ago

    Power imbalance arguments are nonsense because

    existence of power =/= abuse of power

    and even if it did (which it obviously doesn’t) we still have no way to measure power. As in the example above. Maybe he was exploiting her, or maybe the other way round. Or maybe no one was exploiting anyone and they were just in love.

    We can read tabloids and be judgemental weasels 'till the cows come home and it doesn’t really matter, but if people are claiming that “power dynamics” prove that sex is rape, well now we’re talking about a serious felony. It would be atrocious to put someone in prison based on the absurd bullshit people yap about power imbalances.