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Cake day: 2026年10月8日

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  • Zero offense but are you fairly young? Friendship is a two way street. This person is inanely toxic and manipulative. You don’t “obey” someone to stay friends. Ew just ew. She didn’t tell you her birthday directly, she doesn’t get to hold that over you.

    Friends don’t put friends down. They lift each other up. If someone is constantly calling you names, they don’t actually like you. The more you put up with that behavior, the more they will do it because you didn’t say no.

    She’s also shown repeatedly that she doesn’t care about hurting you. She apologizes, plays the victim about how she’s this horrible person, makes you feel bad for her, then doesn’t change anything about her behavior? Yeah no honey, we don’t put up with that. This is not a friend. This is an abuser seeing how far you will let them abuse you. You’re far better off without this person.