• tootoughtoremember@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    It seems to be, at least partially, a generational thing.

    I grew up in rural, conservative-town USA and am old enough to remember when “partner” was code for same-sex spouse that I’m not legally allowed to marry.

    Whereas if you were in a state where you were allowed to marry your same-sex spouse, then they’d be your husband/wife.

    Hearing it now, regardless of orientation, just sounds deliberately vague to some of us oldheads.

    • glimse@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      A Singaporean woman was the first person I heard refer to their opposite-sex partner as “partner” back in probably 2010 and I adopted it. I had a pretty skewed idea of marriage as a kid and it instantly changed my thinking.

      Your spouse SHOULD be your partner. You’re on a team facing this big stupid world together.