• reiterationstation@lemm.ee
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    16 hours ago

    You’ve got to make them an outcast to their in group.

    So stupid shit like pointing out their hands are nicely manicured (if they are a man) that’s why they wear lifts and shoes too large for their feet.

    Or for women you call them a man. That’s why they do it to every woman they hate.

    Just observe them. They lay their cards right on the table.

    • PugJesus@lemmy.world
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      16 hours ago

      The problem, of course, lies in striking the balance between speaking to them in their own terms, and reinforcing the values that many of their terms reflect.