• AWistfulNihilist@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      There’s a sort of old Twitter esque, “Everything must be challenged and I’ve been having this argument with other people for 4 days straight” energy here, yeah.

      As someone who didn’t use Twitter, I would always get in these weird arguments with my friends that were crazily out of proportion. Then when they would cool down later I would predictably learn they were coming fresh off a Twitter debate where everything everyone says is in bad faith.

      It’s kinda fun getting that experience now tho, I feel like I missed out a bit!

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        7 months ago

        need to have a new rule that you don’t get to comment unless you’d be willing to give the other person a hug or at least a firm handshake

        hate being shouted down literally because the other person gets a rush of dopamine

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      7 months ago

      No, you just said something that made no sense and got called on it. That’s not toxic, it’s just clear speech.

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          7 months ago

          No one is trapping you here.

          You refuted what others said, and we aren’t obliged to just accept you twisting words and misrepresenting other’s statements. Sorry that comes off as toxic to YOU when others found your comment bad in the first place.

          People deserve to maintain the character and context of their comments, and you don’t deserve to high horse once you wade in. You chose to mince words, and people disagreed with you. Thats not toxic, that’s adults disagreeing.

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              7 months ago

              I mean, you’re flailing cause adults called you out.

              Now you’re trying to paint it as people who stood up for their words are the ones in the wrong.

              Essentially “it’s just a prank bro!” Energy.

              Just own it and move on.