Okay, having read your responses to other comments it looks like you’re looking for advice on how to ask people out. Which is different from your original questions, so you’re not getting the answers you’re looking for.

It sounds like you don’t have issues with meeting people, which is step one. Step two is identifying who of those people you are interested in and are potentially available. Step three is asking them out (or being asked out) successfully. Step three is difficult for many people, especially if step two is ignored/skipped. Step three is also the most complicated, and I’d recommend making a completely new post about it because what you’ve done here is the relationship equivalent of asking the internet how to do basic algebra, and following it up with “now how do I utilize that concept in this seven-part question from my Calculus II homework?”

For the new post I’d recommend including a lot more context, including your gender, orientation, age range, dating experience/history, and what specifically you’re struggling with. For instance, are you asking people out but getting turned down? Are you struggling to identify who to ask out? Are you having difficulty making your romantic (vs platonic) intentions known, or interpreting if the other person is interested back? Give examples of what has/hasn’t worked. Your original questions were too vague and too lacking in personal detail to get the specific advice it sounds like you’re looking for.

Also, are you by chance neurodivergent? That is another factor that will change the advice that you’re looking for.

A final obligatory disclaimer: please do be careful with what advice you seek out and receive. There is a lot of shitty “dating strategy” advice out there that is ineffective at best and harmful at worst (redpill, alpha male, Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, etc). Failure can easily come from taking good advice to the extreme: yes it helps to be a well-groomed, well-dressed, fit, good-looking, charismatic, and financially successful person, but that doesn’t mean that if you’re not late-90s Brad Pitt you’re doomed to failure (that’s the incel trap). Also, some people luck out and live long, happy lives with the first person they ask out, but that’s exceedingly rare. Nearly everyone faces failure in dating, and sometimes that failure was because of something you did wrong or could have done better (lessons to learn from), but sometimes it’s just because the two people weren’t a good fit (no lesson to learn, except dust yourself off and try again).