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Cake day: December 13th, 2024

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  • I’m nonbinary AFAB, and I personally think that accusations done through the legal system are rare, but I also think that social accusations and “jokes” about somebody’s character are much more common than we want to talk about.

    Another thing that we don’t talk about, is that social accusations don’t only come from people you’ve slept with. My partner and I once had to deal with some guy spreading rumors that I was being repeatedly raped and am too brainwashed to leave. We had to cut a lot of people out of our lives because they spread the rumor without checking in on me at all. It seriously hacks me off that they called themselves “feminist”, while clearly not caring about the well-being of victims of sexual violence, because somebody that actually has feminist praxis would have offered help to an alleged victim. They didn’t actually care about women, just spilling tea. Turns out that guy was telling on himself anyways, because now his ex-wife has a restraining order against him, but the rumor still occasionally pops up in the most aggravating places.

    And it’s infuriating, because I was raped by a boyfriend in high school, and molested by a babysitter as a toddler, but wasn’t taken seriously for either of those. Now people are so totally onboard to believe the fiction that I want it, and I can’t even.

















  • Yeah, anything niche is mostly going to be porn, unfortunately. I make dollhouse miniatures, and the last time I went looking for stuff about it on peertube, it was 90% fetish content and 10% uploads from TV shows, nobody was actually making dollhouses.

    Edit: Just looked again, they’ve gotten rid of the porn, now it’s just entirely stuff from a Netflix kid’s show. Still nobody actually making dollhouses.