I first found out about chastity watching femdom Joi videos. I liked the idea of not being in control of my orgasms or if I’m even allowed to have an erection so I ordered a cage.
I’ve been doing this on my own (no partner or dom) and the constant denial of pleasure makes for a better orgasm when I do allow myself one. I’ve been keeping a schedule of one per week and staying caged the rest of the time (only when at home, haven’t had the confidence to wear a cage to work yet but I’d like to do it soon).
Ultimate goal is to find a dom to use and control me.
I’ve never ate cum before. Maybe I’ll try it next time I’m allowed an orgasm.