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Cake day: January 14th, 2026

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  • Because here in Canada we’re directly influenced by the shit-stain South of us. And America is so corrupt and filled full of no one who has the balls to change anything, it takes foreign countries to call out the bullshit that is happening right now.

    Basically, if Americans won’t hold their own country accountable, the rest of us have to. We know America is basically 350 million cowards. The rest of the world needs to, once again, do the bare minimum for them.


  • Some of our partners are long distance to it’s about planned travel like visiting someone for holidays. But we’re in talks with one of my gfs to move here permanently and she’d likely live about 20 minutes from us. So I’d more than likely see her after work as I work in the town she’d live in, then go home to my partner. Or my gf would spend the weekend here or something.

    Genuinely, Poly isn’t for everyone. It’s literally multiple relationships. Think about how much effort you put into your own monogamous relationship. Then add another. And another. My partner I live with we’re working on getting them abdominal surgery and top surgery. My GF who might move here is a medical student who’s clinically blind is living with her mum who has major health concerns so she goes to school full time and then has to come home and caretake. My other GF is dealing with her dad possibly dying while she navigates weight loss, body image issues, and surgeries coming up this summer.

    And I need to be available all the time for all three of them. It’s not all about “Omg you must have so much sex”. It’s about being present for people you love 24/7. And if you find that difficult for spending that energy on one person… Then don’t do Poly.










  • PhoenixDog@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldYou Disgust Me
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    20 hours ago

    Lol. Lmao, even.

    “I’m okay with fucking kids. I’m okay with law enforcement murdering citizens in the streets. I’m okay with taking rights away from trans people. I’m okay with bombing children on the other side of the world”

    “I want everyone to have affordable healthcare, education, and to be free to live their life”

    BuT bOtH sIdEs ArE tHe SaMe






  • I do it in bed.

    My brain likes to loop every scenario that can happen during the day (When I’m at work. When I’m off I’m just a house cat). So I always set my alarm at least an hour before I plan on getting up (I can start my day at work mostly on my own schedule).

    So say my alarm goes off at 4am, (unless I’ve woken up 45 minutes before it) I hit snooze. And I just lay there in the dark, snuggle the dog, get comfortable, and let my brain work out all the anxiety and situations it needs to. Alarm goes off, my brain knows it’s 4:15am. I have 45 more minutes. Hit snooze, get comfy, stretch, let brain work through the noise. Repeat.

    Fast forward to 5am. I get out of bed, get dressed with my work clothes already for me at the end of my bed. I let the dog outside while I pour the coffee I prepared the morning before on a timer into my big travel mug, wait for dog to come back inside, kiss dog, kiss wife, grab keys and go.

    I’m normally out of bed and out the door in roughly 15 minutes.