I’m trying
It’s hard to be kind to myself when I’m this…

I just wanted to be an ordinary, boring cis city girl. Fml

I can’t speak for other trans people, but I can tell you what NOT to do, from my personal experience with my bf (cis man).

“You’re lucky, you have everything you need including all the medical care and it doesn’t break the bank. Just two hours from here, there are people, children, actively being bombed while they do their best to stay alive. Think about how they must feel…”

When I’m having a dysphoric episode and I decide to tell you, it means I trust you enough to tell you. When you start comparing my own difficulties to other people, saying they have it worse, not only does that hurt a great deal, it also makes me trust you less and makes me rethink opening up to you in the future.

I know you probably have enough common sense and most importantly, empathy, to not do this…my bf didn’t. And now we just don’t talk when I’m really dysphoric.

Sorry for the wall of text, but I felt like this needed to be said.

I know he’s acting like a caretaker for me. I know I’m just being a burden to him. I’m just pulling him down with me…
Don’t worry. I’m aware how pathetic I am. I really am…but I don’t think I’ll get much better. It’s my fault that I started this relationship, I’m only hurting him and making more work for him in the end 🥲

I’m…really sorry to hear that 🫂

I sure hope so. I’ve been drinking this green sludge instead of eating today. It makes the pain almost bearable

You sure are ❤️

Actually never, probably

Maybe you’re not looking hard enough? 👀

One day, I’m sure he will go insane 😆
Cause I’m not done asking, that’s for sure…

I found everything from them here (beware: Facebook).

It’s a super pretty ring. I like it a lot ♥️

I just like eyes

👀

Maybe…kinda. Probably?
I’m not going to judge a loving happy-looking couple tho 😭

Idk, blowing my boyfriend after he eats a sandwich seems like real enough food to me :P
Moar candy 😋

Waow
Pretty! 🖤

From my understanding, she’s a zombie. No idea what kind of zombie has stitches, but the comments seemed to agree: she is indeed a zombie.

The first thing that comes to my mind is that this is just a homemade sex doll

She’s a person with feelings too, y’know :P

Omg Viv you have such pretty hands, you really do! And your ring is super nice.
I’m probably wrong, but it reminds me a bit of those evil eye charms.

You go girlie 💜

We all kinda do 🫂
Long sleeves are underrated af!

Waow 👀
That sounds…damn. Hope you’re alright ♥️
Sounds like you had fun tho 😆

Remodeling is what I meant, thank you.

What I originally meant, was that having enough money, I would go for all of these riskier and more expensive surgeries, essentially remodeling my entire body
The human ship of Theseus (Ciseus?) 😆

I just meant like a ton of cosmetic surgeries. Shoulders, ribs, FFS, hips, lipo and many others…
No, they wouldn’t make me cis, but I’d feel a lot more cis, ig…
Sorry for misleading you