I dont have a single acquantaince with a child that is reachable to anyone in any way except texting so yea.

Hell one of them I borrowed a tool to, told me they still haven’t got it back to me. That it’s in their car, but they just haven’t had time to get it back.

They live 5 minutes away.

And noz they’re not just avoiding me, were bros. He really is fucked up by work and life.

You think all of them do?

I think it’s an “and” list, not a “pick one”

Like literally no. Had a friend who got a literal unwanted pregnancy, she hemmed and hawwed about it for a couple weeks then decided to keep it because an abobo felt icky. And I garuntee she was in a fucking manic phase because she has BPD and didn’t consider it was an 18+ year commitment.

Not trying to sound sexist, but now she’s stressed as hell, about twice the size she was pre pregnancy, and baby daddy is absentee but pays for shit at least. And then goes on to be upset because she can’t go out with friends anymore.

Like the amount people literally don’t think about their actions is staggering, especially when it comes to children.