One thing I get asked over and over is how do I maintain him flaccid in some of my videos. So I‘ve decided to make a video, that‘s a bit more instructional about that and perhaps give you a bit of a fun commentary to it. 😊

**First things first. A disclaimer: **⚠ This method might not be for everybody, if you try to do it, be sure you have no perineal issues as this might exacerbate your problems. The core idea of the method is, that there is a vein that supplies the penis with a liquid that makes it hard. Penis is basically a liquid-filled sponge/ballon. So, if you put a little bit of pressure on the area between the anus and balls, it greatly limits the speed of flow and makes erection physically impossible. There are some nerves as well and of course, limiting the „inflow“ to any body part isn‘t recommended for prolonged periods of time. If done correctly it should not be riskier than sitting on an old bike seat though. Just don‘t go too long or too hard and remember I am just a person on the internet, so use your own judgment.

With that out of the way, here is how I do it from a Mistress perspective:

Step 1:

Find something to make your subject sit on. The roll of tightly packed towels is working well.

From experience there are other options, the aim is medium hardness and diameter. Too hard or soft and it might be hurtful or not work as intended.

Step 2:

Place your subject perineum directly on the roll.

Step 3:

Remove the cage.

The subject is now unable to get an erection, but his sensitivity isn‘t affected. That means he can be (and should be) edged. He is just as horny as any time and feels my every touch. His brain just doesn‘t understand why isn‘t he getting hard at all. Instead, I am mocking his flaccid dick, as its hangs like a noodle. As I play with it, he will be feeling increasingly more aroused to the point where he might actually cum. Note: It‘s much harder to „feel the edge“, so if he was playing against me and didn‘t make a sound on purpose I might not be able to guess when is he on the edge. Depending on your goal, it‘s entirely possible to reach orgasm, or ruined orgasm this way. Or in this case, I might just tease him, deny him orgasm and erection, and then lock him back, without stretching even a little bit. 😈

Step: 4

Relock the cage

Because the erection never occurred, this is an easy process. No icing, cooling, or waiting is necessary. The cage is very easy to put back on. Ideal for trying multiple cages as there is no risk of erection making things unnecessarily difficult. Which especially after a teasing session may happen quite easily 🤭

Step: 5

Remove the roll

The subject now may feel a rush in his penis, as the gates have been reopened and the body tries to catch up, with all that pent-up sexual energy. Luckily his penis is already back in the cage, so nothing like that is going to happen. 😈But it’s fun to watch him squirm 🤭