I’ve actually been wondering about this for a while. Realised this is a really good place to ask!

So when you’re dating someone in Malaysia. How often do you like to check in with your partner? How much is too much or too little?

I’m a pretty independent nyet so once every couple days feels about right for me. And maybe share some funny link if it pops up. Any more and I start feeling this slightly smothering obligation hanging in the air. But I’ve heard a pretty wide range on what people think is normal / makes them insecure. Like some couples wish each other good morning and good night every single day kinda thing. (But also some couples wear 100% matching outfits when they go out. Pls just let me die instead)

  • jellodi@monyet.ccMEnglish
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    1 year ago

    Hmm you still haven’t answered my question tho. What are you seeking out of this relationship, emotionally and physically?

    • dcx@monyet.ccOPEnglish
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      1 year ago

      I dunno, same thing everyone wants out of a relationship, I think? All that filthy

      spoiler

      hand holding and headpats

      Spoilers aren’t fun on Lemmy :<

      • jellodi@monyet.ccMEnglish
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        1 year ago

        oh wait yeah you did answer me lmao

        so physical but minimal on the emotional side of it

        typical I may know someone to introduce to you…

        • dcx@monyet.ccOPEnglish
          1·
          1 year ago

          Garr I see what you’re doing and I’m not gonna be clickbaited into a reply here lolol

          • jellodi@monyet.ccMEnglish
            1·
            1 year ago

            gotta generate that engagement to hit KPI before my boss comes back for evaluation in August bro tolong sikit