The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/jackknife-denim on 2025-02-22 00:30:53.

Myself (34) and my spouse (28) do not have children, some of his friends do, some of mine do as well though. Some of my friends have kids that are 13+ and some of his friends kids are 2-5 years.

Where I might be the asshole is a few weeks ago one of his friends came over to hang out, my spouse didn’t know he was coming with his wife and her children 2 & 3 yrs old… so they get here, we hang out and play the game, shoot the shit etc. His friend didn’t want to drive home, so they assumed they could stay here. I said no, that I don’t have kids and my home is not child proof. Also, I have some expense stuff they could mess up if they aren’t monitored (work computer, curio cabinet, etc). Not that they don’t watch their kids, but what if they wake up before the parents…? Now that is on me cause it’s my house if they get hurt or break something.

They left kinda mad and now I’m wondering if I’m the AH for saying no to the couple & their kids staying the night…?