Please share your favorite theories and ideas for furthering a sissy mindset in the comments :D

Here are a few of my favorite theories:

Social Milieu theory: Surrounding yourself with people who accept and promote sissification will lead you to accept it as well.

Positive Association theory: Forming positive associations with doing sissy things (for example, wearing panties while playing a favorite video game, or having positive sissy experiences in general) will promote a sissy mindset.

Self-Improvement theory: Using sissy urges to self-improve will be overall beneficial and also cause positive associations with sissification.

Moderation theory: Keeping the most intense sissy urges in check, rather than overindulging in them, will prevent purges and long-term loss of interest.


Here are some other theories I’ve found out in the wild:

Surroundings/Accessories theory: Decorating your room effeminately, or making subtle changes to your body such as painting your toenails or shaving your legs, can reinforce a sissy mindset due to your surroundings.

Habit theory: Doing an activity regularly for a certain amount of time (e.g. a month) will turn it into a habit.

Affirmations theory: Repeating a line such as “I am a sissy” will mentally reinforce whatever you are saying (or writing).

Post-Refractory theory: This idea says that continuing to engage in sissy activities after cumming will eventually lead to the loss of mental hang-ups and inhibitions.

Chastity theory: This idea says that wearing chastity or going without orgasm will lead to sissy desires. [While this is partially true, I’m not sure how sustainable it is]

Permanent Decision / Exposure theory: This idea says that undertaking some permanent decision (such as spreading images of oneself everywhere online) will lead to a “point of no return” after which one must accept oneself as a sissy. [I don’t recommend this one! I include it because many sissies seem to think it works, though the reality is far more dubious]

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    Wow, thanks for sharing! I wouldn’t mind being in a relationship like yours and I learned a lot. I’m guessing you dom on occasion now, probably when she requests it. I’m really happy for you two that you were each aware of how much time you wanted to spend in the sub role, which was very different, and that you found a dynamic that works so well for you. Your devotion to each other and mutual appreciation of each other’s kinks is really lovely

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      1 year ago

      Honestly she’s incredible. I’ve never been this emotionally deep in submission to someone before. I dom on occasion, but she’s encouraging me to go online and find another don that can help keep me in check(I have an ultra-high sex drive), as well as possibly dominate her/both us in the future.