Art by J. L. Westover

  • Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I was listening to a self help book about bad habits and it keeps going on about video games=time waste, don’t do it. Honestly that’s bullshit and I’m sick of that viewpoint. What if that’s what I like to do in my down time to relax? Why is playing video games a bad habit but watching a movie isn’t?

    • elvith@feddit.org
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      2 months ago

      Well, the author probably grew up and was socialized in a world that had books/movies, but not video games, so…

    • lath@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Their point might have been to do something constructive. To get a skill out of it you can use to provide for yourself if need be. So they’re probably thinking of carpentry, pottery, gardening or other vocational hobbies…

    • Nemoder@lemmy.ml
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      2 months ago

      Exactly, just got to find that balance. Like slacking off and playing games at work.
      Or my fav: playing complex games that are basically a second job!

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    2 months ago

    For you to not live in a world where you’re being inundated by all of the collective human stressors every day?

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      2 months ago

      My experience with stressors is that they are relative, and they scale to fit the available worry. I’m stressed about work, but from personal experience I have been just as stressed about being unemployed or about school. Therefore the stress is the common thing - if it is common then adjusting to the stress is more productive than avoiding the stresses.

      Hence meditation, exercise, meaningful relationships, etc.

  • workerONE@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    After they’ve taken care of shelter and clothing people tend to work until they can feed themselves and then stop working for a while