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The original was posted on /r/asoneafterinfidelity by /u/ppismygayme on 2023-07-08 20:15:03+00:00.

my WP says often that she regrets it because of how much it hurt me. i recently had a friend tell me that back in their low days when they had an A, they told their partner the same thing, but told me the reality was that they only regretted it because they got caught.

how can i be sure that’s not the case here? my WP ended up breaking up with me to go with AP after AP convinced her to end our relationship. conveniently, AP only used WP for sex and once he got what he wanted he dropped her for another girl… how can i be certain the regret doesn’t come from the fact that choosing AP over me ended up backfiring? i’m glad she realized in the end that im “the one”, but i can’t help and wonder if she only came back to because that A failed so miserably that it humbled her.

i’d also like to add that WP not in limerence as AP has done her dirty enough to make her feel fine without him.

any input is appreciated. even if you’re just sharing your own experiences with these thoughts as a BS, or your actual experiences with regret as a WS.