This is just a concern I had with the client. Back during the good ol’ Reddit days, I get notified about a post/comment reply immediately when it happens. I have since left that website, and for some reason I don’t know why this isn’t a feature yet.
And yes I have tried Connect for Lemmy, I had major problems with that app.
Oh wow. Who knew how complicated that is.
It’s not that complicated, it just hasn’t been done. Most apps just check every few minutes if there’s something to notify the user of.